How can i get my daughter to accept this illness/nose condition?

People learn to live with chronic illnesses... not trying to diminish your daughters issue but people live with diabetes and give themselves injections everyday.. people live with diseases like Lupus or Crohns that they take daily medication for, peopel live with asthma and use inhalers all the time..... Eventually she will come to terms with it and realize it is just something she has to deal with or live with the consequences.. Have her look for a support group online (www.dailystrength.org has great support groups for about any medical condition you can imagine), being able to talk to other people who go through the same thing might help.